It's my true story. This is the first time I am ever writing about myself, about my own life. Just because I felt the need to interact with my readers. To let them know what I am doing in my life... Friends, I am a Knowledge Manager by profession and work in one of the multinationals in Mumbai, India. If you want to talk to me, please drop me a mail and I promise I will get back to you soon.
Friends, last 3-4 weeks have been one of my worst times... Seriously... I am not kidding! It was a rough patch in my life and I was simply not in the mood to do anything, not even blogging!
Towards the end of February, I was dragged into useless gossip in my office. Though I was involved by force, people who matter in office took it in wrong sense and the whole world changed for me. People started neglecting me in office. My so called good-friends did not bother to talk me. We used to always have lunch together and if someone was busy we used to wait for him/her so that we get a good 30 minutes of stress-free chat at the lunch table. It all changed - no one wanted me to accompany them for lunch...
I felt really bad. I can't express my frustration in words, but believe me it is definitely not a happy moment for anyone. I consulted my wife and she suggested that I should also avoid making any efforts to patch up with these "friends". I should find new friends, talk to them, go to lunch with them, etc. I should continue doing it for some days and she assured that things will change for good. I, first of all, doubted this strategy but as I had no options, I started following it. And believe me, now after almost 3 weeks, things have really changed for good!
Those very friends now talk to me all by themselves, ask me for lunch, take me along with them and what not... I don't know what miracle might have happened but I am happy. I have not lost my dignity and at the same time, I have regained my respect! In fact, I feel it has increased!! So I am back to blogging and I am back with a bang... So friends, the motto of the whole story is: Do not lose faith in yourself!
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